Tuesday, 23 July 2013

Jealousy??would it be alright for us to get jealous? I can understand and accept the feeling of jealousy in the context of lovers and marriage. They say jealousy is a reflection of your love towards your partner. What about in the academic or career settings? Would it be acceptable for us to be jealous towards our colleagues. When our friends or colleagues are performing well in some areas, sometimes you wish you can be happy for her and celebrate her success but sometimes you just cannot do that. That is because you are feeling jealous inside. It is not a good thing to have inside you because it is killing you...killing your beautiful soul. It makes you turn sour,,, if it is left untreated I am afraid that your heart and soul will be rotten. It is not that you will do something bad to that person,,not to that extent. It is just you cannot be happy because you wish you are in their position, success and happy. Would it be alright for you to be jealous if that feeling can push you to try harder and be more competitive? Is that valid enough a reason to justify your bad attitude and feeling? Is that considered selfish? I don't know but one thing for sure I don't like that feeling to reside within my heart. If I have been feeling jealous towards someone, does that mean my heart have been diseased? Oh no!!!!!

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